How to organise a wedding cruise without last-minute problems

A wedding cruise combines a ceremony, reception and moving venue, so the route and departure time should shape every other decision. Start by confirming the cruise route, deposit and onboard timing, then build the guest list, catering and seating around the space available. Suppliers, dietary requirements, speeches and music need firm deadlines because there is little room to fix mistakes once the boat leaves. Use the final week for route confirmation, weather checks, shopping and practical onboard checks—not major decisions.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • 1

    Confirm the cruise route and departure

  • 2

    Check the cruise deposit

  • 3

    Book flower suppliers

  • 4

    Confirm photographer and videographer

  • 5

    Send invitations

    2 people

  • 6

    Share the gift list and route details

  • 7

    Process registrations

  • 8

    Collect dietary requirements

  • 9

    Collect music preferences

  • 10

    Create final guest list

  • 11

    Arrange the table layout

    2 people

  • 12

    Design menus

  • 13

    Arrange seating for seniors

  • 14

    Schedule witnesses and speeches

  • 15

    Order the bridal bouquet and corsages

  • 16

    Order cake

  • 17

    Confirm catering menu

  • 18

    Coordinate drinks list

  • 19

    Compile playlist

  • 20

    Test sound equipment

    2 people

  • 21

    Check the weather forecast

  • 22

    Share final route

  • 23

    Do the shopping

    3 people

  • 24

    Chill drinks

    2 people

  • 25

    Check dishes and glassware

    2 people

  • 26

    Print menus

  • 27

    Write name tags

    2 people

  • 28

    Print the speaking order

  • 29

    Sort decorations

    2 people

  • 30

    Keep flowers cool

  • 31

    Set up the welcome table

    2 people

  • 32

    Set up tables

    3 people

  • 33

    Set up chairs

    3 people

  • 34

    Set table linen

    2 people

  • 35

    Set tableware on the table

    3 people

  • 36

    Set out glassware

    2 people

  • 37

    Lay out cutlery

    2 people

  • 38

    Place name tags

    2 people

  • 39

    Hang decorations

    3 people

  • 40

    Place floral arrangements

    2 people

  • 41

    Set up candles and lighting

    2 people

  • 42

    Connect the music

    2 people

  • 43

    Prepare snacks

    3 people

  • 44

    Set out buffet dishes

    3 people

  • 45

    Place cake on dessert table

    2 people

  • 46

    Set up welcome drinks

    2 people

  • 47

    Place the guest list at the entrance

  • 48

    Carry out the final safety check

    2 people

Event

  • 49

    Welcome guests

    3 people

  • 50

    Serve welcome drinks

    3 people

  • 51

    Escort guests to tables

    2 people

  • 52

    Serve toast

    3 people

  • 53

    Serve snacks

    4 people

  • 54

    Refill drinks

    3 people

  • 55

    Announce speeches

  • 56

    Open the buffet

    2 people

  • 57

    Restock the buffet

    3 people

  • 58

    Serve diet meals

    2 people

  • 59

    Clear tables

    3 people

  • 60

    Cut the cake

    2 people

  • 61

    Serve cake

    3 people

  • 62

    Serve coffee and tea

    3 people

  • 63

    Clear the dance floor

    2 people

  • 64

    Serve farewell drinks

    2 people

  • 65

    Guide guests to the exit

    2 people

  • 66

    Collect lost items

    2 people

Aftercare

  • 67

    Remove decorations

    3 people

  • 68

    Take down tables and chairs

    3 people

  • 69

    Collect waste

    3 people

  • 70

    Wash dishes

    3 people

  • 71

    Clean glassware

    2 people

  • 72

    Clean the kitchen

    2 people

  • 73

    Clean tables and floors

    3 people

  • 74

    Pack leftover food

    2 people

  • 75

    Empty coolers

    2 people

  • 76

    Return borrowed materials

    2 people

  • 77

    Take waste to the collection point

    2 people

  • 78

    Return lost property

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Foldable tablesqty 8
  • Folding chairsqty 70
  • Buffet tablesqty 3
  • Gift table
  • Welcome table
  • Dessert table
  • Table linenqty 10
  • Chair coversqty 70

Tableware

  • Dinner platesqty 75
  • Dessert platesqty 75
  • Coffee cupsqty 75
  • Coffee spoonsqty 75
  • Dinner knivesqty 75
  • Dinner forksqty 75
  • Dessert forksqty 75
  • Water glassesqty 80
  • Wine glassesqty 80
  • Champagne glassesqty 75
  • Coffee potsqty 4
  • Serving plattersqty 12
  • Serving tongsqty 8
  • Serving spoonsqty 8
  • Cake knife
  • Cake stand

Decorations

  • Flower arrangementsqty 8
  • Bridal bouquet
  • Corsagesqty 8
  • Name badgesqty 70
  • Menusqty 10
  • Welcome sign
  • Table numbersqty 8
  • Balloonsqty 80
  • Balloon ribbonqty 2
  • Confettiqty 4
  • Ring pillow
  • Guest book
  • Pensqty 6
  • Candlesqty 24
  • Candle holdersqty 12
  • Table runnersqty 8

Equipment

  • Portable speakersqty 2
  • Microphoneqty 2
  • Mixer
  • Extension cordsqty 4
  • Power stripsqty 4
  • Coolersqty 4
  • Ice containersqty 3
  • Thermos flasksqty 6
  • Coffee machinesqty 2

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Chef's knivesqty 4
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Measuring cupsqty 2
  • Aluminum foilqty 3
  • Cling filmqty 3
  • Food containersqty 20
  • Bottle openersqty 4
  • Corkscrewsqty 4

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 6
  • Battery lanternsqty 6

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 6
  • Dustpan and brushqty 2
  • Mopsqty 3
  • Bucketsqty 3
  • Microfiber clothsqty 12
  • Dish brushesqty 4
  • Hand soap dispensersqty 4

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Confirm the route, boarding point and departure time before sending invitations. Share the final route with guests at least 7 days before departure, including when they should arrive.
  • Set deadlines for guest registrations and dietary requirements. Close registrations 14 days before the cruise so you can finalise catering, menus, seating and the table layout.
  • Plan seating with the boat in mind, not just family relationships. Reserve the most stable and accessible seats for older guests, and keep clear access to the buffet, gift table and toilets.
  • Confirm every supplier at least 7 days before sailing, including the photographer, videographer, florist, cake supplier and caterer. Check that the bridal bouquet, corsages, flowers and cake all have a named handover point.
  • Treat drinks, music and tableware as onboard logistics. Chill drinks before guests arrive, test the sound equipment on the boat, and count dinner, dessert and coffee settings before loading plates, glasses and serving utensils.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a wedding cruise?
Start planning at least 6 months before the wedding cruise, especially if the route, boat and suppliers are not yet confirmed. Finalise the guest list, catering and seating around 14 days before departure.
When should wedding cruise invitations be sent?
Send invitations as soon as the route, departure point and timing are confirmed, ideally 3 to 6 months ahead. Request registrations and dietary requirements by a fixed deadline, preferably 14 days before the cruise.
How much food and drink do I need for a wedding cruise?
Base catering on the confirmed guest list and allow for the full cruise duration, including the meal, cake, coffee and non-alcoholic drinks. For the first hour, plan roughly 2 to 3 drinks per guest, then adjust for the remaining sailing time and your menu.
What should I check the day before a wedding cruise?
Check the weather forecast, final route, guest list, catering, drinks, cake, flowers, music and supplier arrival times the day before. Also count tableware and chill drinks early enough to replace missing items before boarding.

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