How to organise a high tea without last-minute stress

Start by fixing the guest list, sending invitations and collecting dietary requirements before ordering food or planning the table. Once registrations close, confirm the final number of guests and match it to the tea, sandwiches, pastries and tableware you need. Prepare anything that keeps well in advance, then leave fresh sandwiches, fruit and chilled drinks for the final hours. On the day, set up the buffet and drink station before guests arrive so serving does not interrupt the welcome.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • 1

    Compile the guest list

  • 2

    Send invitations

  • 3

    Process registrations

  • 4

    Collect dietary requirements

  • 5

    Determine the final number of guests

  • 6

    Confirm deliveries and pickup orders

  • 7

    Check dishes and glassware

    2 people

  • 8

    Wash and iron table linen

  • 9

    Check the shopping list

  • 10

    Do the shopping

    2 people

  • 11

    Store non-perishable groceries

  • 12

    Keep fresh produce cool

  • 13

    Pick up cake and pastries

    2 people

  • 14

    Prepare cold appetizers

    3 people

  • 15

    Prepare sandwiches

    3 people

  • 16

    Wash and cut fruit

    2 people

  • 17

    Portion savory snacks

    2 people

  • 18

    Cut the cake

    2 people

  • 19

    Set aside allergy-free snacks

  • 20

    Chill drinks

    2 people

  • 21

    Set up tables and chairs

    4 people

  • 22

    Set table linen

    2 people

  • 23

    Set out tableware and cutlery

    3 people

  • 24

    Set up the buffet and drinks station

    3 people

  • 25

    Hang decorations

    2 people

  • 26

    Prepare tea and coffee

    2 people

  • 27

    Arrange snacks on tiered trays

    3 people

  • 28

    Set up the reception desk

Event

  • 29

    Welcome guests

    2 people

  • 30

    Serve tea and coffee

    2 people

  • 31

    Serve snacks and pastries

    3 people

  • 32

    Refill drinks

    2 people

  • 33

    Collect used dishes

    2 people

  • 34

    Offer a final round of tea

    2 people

  • 35

    See off guests

    2 people

Aftercare

  • 36

    Tear down the buffet

    3 people

  • 37

    Pack food safely

    2 people

  • 38

    Wash dishes

    3 people

  • 39

    Clear tables and chairs

    4 people

  • 40

    Clean the venue

    3 people

  • 41

    Collect and remove waste

    2 people

  • 42

    Remove decorations

    2 people

  • 43

    Store leftover materials

    2 people

  • 44

    Return borrowed items

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Tablesqty 6
  • Chairsqty 32
  • Buffet tablesqty 2
  • Coat racksqty 2

Tableware

  • Teacupsqty 36
  • Tea saucersqty 36
  • Cake platesqty 36
  • Coffee spoonsqty 36
  • Cake forksqty 36
  • Water glassesqty 36
  • Teapotsqty 6
  • Tiered traysqty 8
  • Serving plattersqty 10
  • Serving tongsqty 6
  • Water jugsqty 4

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Chef’s knives and bread knivesqty 6
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Measuring cupsqty 2
  • Coolersqty 3

Equipment

  • Kettlesqty 3
  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Extension cordsqty 3
  • Power stripsqty 3

Decorations

  • Table runnersqty 6
  • Flower arrangementsqty 6
  • Tealight holdersqty 12
  • Name badgesqty 32
  • Menusqty 6

Lighting

  • LED string lightsqty 2

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 3
  • Washing-up bowlsqty 2
  • Cleaning clothsqty 12

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Close registrations several days before the high tea and use the final guest count to confirm cake, pastries, sandwiches and drinks. Keep a written list of dietary requirements next to the preparation area.
  • Check cups, saucers, cake plates, forks, spoons, teapots and serving pieces before setting the tables. Missing tea equipment is harder to replace once food preparation has started.
  • Prepare non-perishable items and decorations the day before, including table linen, menu cards and name badges. Wash and iron the linen early rather than leaving it until the room is being set up.
  • Keep fresh produce, sandwiches and other chilled items cool until close to serving time. Pick up the cake and pastries on the agreed day, then keep allergen-free portions clearly separate from the start.
  • Set up tables, chairs, the buffet and drink station before arranging the food. Check kettles, coffee machines, extension cords and power strips before guests arrive, and keep cables away from walkways.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a high tea?
Start planning at least 2 weeks before the event. Send invitations early enough to collect registrations and dietary requirements, then confirm the final guest count several days before ordering or collecting food.
When should I prepare sandwiches for a high tea?
Prepare sandwiches on the day of the high tea, preferably 2 to 4 hours before guests arrive. Keep them covered and chilled so the bread stays fresh and the fillings remain safe.
How much tea do I need for a high tea?
Plan around 2 to 3 cups of tea per guest for the first 2 hours, with extra hot water available. Set out more than one teapot if guests will be choosing different teas or if the group is larger than 12 people.
When should I set up the high tea table?
Set up tables, linen, chairs and tableware the day before where possible. Put out fresh food, chilled drinks and the buffet display 30 to 60 minutes before guests arrive.

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