Large Wedding Checklist

Planning a large wedding means coordinating people, suppliers, timings and hundreds of small details. Start with the date, guest list and venue, then book catering, photography, sound and transport before popular dates fill up. Later, confirm dietary requirements, childcare, the seating plan and every delivery. This checklist gives you a practical order for organising the ceremony and reception, including furniture, tableware, decorations and last-minute contacts.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Set wedding date

    2 people

  • Compile guest list

    2 people

  • Reserve venue

    2 people

  • Book catering

    2 people

  • Reserve photographer

  • Reserve sound equipment

  • Record witnesses

    2 people

  • Design invitations

    2 people

  • Send invitations

    2 people

  • Publish the Gift List

  • Order wedding bouquet

  • Order flower decorations

  • Order cake

    2 people

  • Arrange transport

    2 people

  • Process registrations

    2 people

  • Collect dietary requirements

    2 people

  • Arrange childcare

  • Create seating plan

    2 people

  • Confirm menu choice

    2 people

  • Compile the music program

    2 people

  • Work out table arrangement

    2 people

  • Make name badges

    2 people

  • Print ceremony program

    2 people

  • Confirm deliveries

  • Collect emergency contacts

  • Check the shopping list

    2 people

  • Do the shopping

    3 people

  • Chill drinks

    2 people

  • Have the cake delivered

    2 people

  • Receive flowers

    2 people

  • Open venue

    2 people

  • Check rooms

    2 people

  • Set up tables

    4 people

  • Set up chairs

    4 people

  • Set up the ceremony area

    3 people

  • Hang decorations

    4 people

  • Place floral arrangements

    2 people

  • Set the tables

    4 people

  • Place name tags

    2 people

  • Set up buffet

    4 people

  • Test sound equipment

    2 people

  • Test the lighting

    2 people

  • Prepare catering

    5 people

  • Check toilets

  • Set up the welcome desk

    2 people

Event

  • Welcome guests

    3 people

  • Support the ceremony

    3 people

  • Serve welcome drinks

    3 people

  • Facilitate the group photo

    2 people

  • Serve snacks

    4 people

  • Refill drinks

    3 people

  • Open the buffet

    3 people

  • Serve dinner

    5 people

  • Clear plates

    4 people

  • Cut the cake

    3 people

  • Serve coffee and tea

    3 people

  • Clear the dance floor

    2 people

  • Serve evening snacks

    3 people

  • Announce the final round

  • See off guests

    3 people

Aftercare

  • Pack leftovers

    3 people

  • Wash dishes

    4 people

  • Collect waste

    3 people

  • Remove decorations

    4 people

  • Dismantle furniture

    4 people

  • Clean the venue

    4 people

  • Gather borrowed items

    2 people

  • Return materials

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Round tablesqty 10
  • Buffet tablesqty 4
  • Chairsqty 90
  • High tablesqty 6
  • Wedding table
  • Coat racksqty 2
  • Parasolqty 2

Tableware

  • Dinner platesqty 100
  • Dessert platesqty 100
  • Soup bowlsqty 90
  • Water glassesqty 100
  • Wine glassesqty 100
  • Champagne glassesqty 90
  • Coffee cupsqty 90
  • Dinner cutleryqty 100
  • Coffee spoonsqty 100
  • Serving plattersqty 20
  • Serving tongsqty 12
  • Carafesqty 12

Decorations

  • Tableclothsqty 14
  • Napkinsqty 100
  • Name badgesqty 90
  • Table numbersqty 10
  • Welcome sign
  • Ceremony arch
  • Artificial flowersqty 12
  • Flower vasesqty 12
  • Balloonsqty 100
  • Balloon ribbonqty 4
  • Confetti cannonsqty 6
  • Guest book
  • Pensqty 6
  • Gift table sign

Equipment

  • Active speakersqty 2
  • Wireless microphonesqty 2
  • Mixer
  • Speaker standsqty 2
  • Extension cordsqty 6
  • Power stripsqty 6
  • Laptop
  • Music stand

Kitchen

  • Coolersqty 4
  • Food warmersqty 8
  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Kettlesqty 2
  • Cutting boardsqty 6
  • Chef's knivesqty 4
  • Serving spoonsqty 12
  • Cake knife
  • Cake stand
  • Thermos flasksqty 6

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 8
  • LED lampsqty 20
  • Lanternsqty 10

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 6
  • Mopsqty 3
  • Bucketsqty 3
  • Spongesqty 12
  • Microfiber clothsqty 12

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Set the date, guest list and venue before confirming other suppliers. Once you know the approximate guest count and available space, you can choose the right number of tables, chairs, buffet tables and place settings.
  • Send invitations early enough to collect dietary requirements, children’s attendance and witness details. Set the RSVP deadline at least 4–6 weeks before the wedding so the menu, seating plan and catering numbers can be finalised.
  • Confirm the full reception layout before delivery day. Check the positions of round tables, high tables, the wedding table, buffet tables, coat racks and the ceremony arch, and make sure there is space for guests and service staff to move safely.
  • Count tableware against your final guest number, not your original estimate. Allow one dinner plate, dessert plate, set of dinner cutlery, water glass and wine glass per guest, plus the coffee cups, serving platters and carafes needed for the menu.
  • Create a delivery and emergency contact sheet during the final week. Include the caterer, photographer, sound equipment supplier, transport provider and key helpers, then give one person responsibility for checking arrivals and solving problems on the day.

Frequently asked questions

How early should I start planning a large wedding?
Start at least 12 months before the wedding if you need a popular venue or several specialist suppliers. Set the date and guest list first, then reserve the venue and book catering, photography, sound and transport.
When should wedding invitations be sent?
Send invitations around 10–12 weeks before the wedding, or earlier if many guests need to travel. Set the RSVP deadline 4–6 weeks before the day so you have time to confirm the menu and seating plan.
How many drinks should I plan per wedding guest?
For the first hour, plan on 2–3 drinks per adult guest, then about 1 drink per hour afterward. Add water for the full reception and confirm quantities with the caterer once the final guest count is known.
When should I finalise the wedding seating plan?
Finalise the seating plan about 2–3 weeks before the wedding, after the RSVP deadline and dietary information are complete. Print table numbers and name badges only after the final changes have been checked.

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