Classic wedding checklist: plan the day step by step

A classic wedding involves dozens of small decisions, from setting the date and booking both venues to checking rings, printing menus and confirming deliveries. Start with the guest list and budget, then secure the ceremony, reception, catering, photographer and music before adding the details. Use the checklist to keep registrations, dietary requirements, transport, table layouts and ceremony materials on schedule. Leave the final week for confirmations, weather checks and practical handovers rather than major decisions.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Set wedding date

    2 people

  • Compile guest list

    2 people

  • Allocate the budget

    2 people

  • Reserve ceremony venue

    2 people

  • Reserve party venue

    2 people

  • Book catering

    2 people

  • Reserve photographer

    2 people

  • Arrange music

    2 people

  • Design wedding invitations

    2 people

  • Sending wedding invitations

    2 people

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Arrange the table layout

    2 people

  • Finalize the menu

    2 people

  • Create the ceremony program

    2 people

  • Select music tracks

    2 people

  • Arrange transportation for guests

    2 people

  • Order the bridal bouquet

  • Order cake

    2 people

  • Check the rings

    2 people

  • Print the program

    2 people

  • Print menus

    2 people

  • Make name badges

    2 people

  • Confirm deliveries

  • Check the weather forecast

  • Update guest list

  • Check the shopping list

    2 people

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Chill drinks

    2 people

  • Picking up the cake

    2 people

  • Pick up flowers

    2 people

  • Sort decorations

    2 people

  • Lay out the ceremony program

  • Lay out the rings

  • Open venue

    2 people

  • Receive deliveries

    2 people

  • Set up tables

    4 people

  • Set up chairs

    4 people

  • Set up ceremony seating

    3 people

  • Hang decorations

    3 people

  • Place floral arrangements

    2 people

  • Set the tables

    4 people

  • Place name tags

    2 people

  • Set up catering

    3 people

  • Set out drinks

    2 people

  • Test sound equipment

    2 people

  • Check toilets

  • Welcome the bride and groom

    2 people

Event

  • Welcome guests

    3 people

  • Support the ceremony

    3 people

  • Serve champagne

    3 people

  • Serve snacks

    3 people

  • Facilitate the group photo

    2 people

  • Serve dinner

    5 people

  • Serve diet meals

    2 people

  • Refill drinks

    2 people

  • Collect tableware

    3 people

  • Cut the cake

    2 people

  • Serve coffee and tea

    3 people

  • Coordinate music and dancing

    2 people

  • Serve late-night snacks

    2 people

  • See off guests

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Chill leftovers

    2 people

  • Collect waste

    3 people

  • Remove decorations

    3 people

  • Clear tables and chairs

    4 people

  • Wash dishes

    3 people

  • Clean the venue

    4 people

  • Distribute leftover food

    2 people

  • Gather borrowed items

    2 people

  • Return rental items

    2 people

  • Dispose of waste

    2 people

  • Store unused groceries

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Round tablesqty 8
  • Long buffet tablesqty 4
  • Chairsqty 90
  • High tablesqty 6
  • Table linenqty 12
  • Chair coversqty 90

Tableware

  • Dinner platesqty 100
  • Dessert platesqty 100
  • Coffee cupsqty 90
  • Water glassesqty 100
  • Wine glassesqty 100
  • Champagne glassesqty 90
  • Coffee spoonsqty 100
  • Table knivesqty 100
  • Table forksqty 100
  • Table spoonsqty 100
  • Serving spoonsqty 16
  • Cake knife
  • Serving plattersqty 12
  • Dessert serving traysqty 6

Equipment

  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Kettlesqty 2
  • Refrigeratorsqty 2
  • Coolersqty 4
  • Extension cordsqty 6
  • Power stripsqty 6
  • Wireless microphonesqty 2
  • Speakersqty 2
  • Music player
  • Audio mixer

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 6
  • Table lampsqty 8
  • LED candlesqty 40

Decorations

  • Flower arrangementsqty 10
  • Welcome sign
  • Ceremony arch
  • Ribbonsqty 6
  • Table decorationsqty 8
  • Candle holdersqty 40
  • Ring pillow
  • Guest book
  • Pensqty 6
  • Table numbersqty 8
  • Menusqty 90
  • Name badgesqty 90
  • Ceremony programsqty 100

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Chef's knifeqty 3
  • Measuring cupsqty 2
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Serving tongsqty 8
  • Thermos flasksqty 4
  • Bottle openersqty 4
  • Corkscrewsqty 4
  • Cake stand
  • Cake spatula

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 6
  • Bucketsqty 3
  • Mopsqty 3
  • Broomqty 2
  • Dustpan and brushqty 2
  • Cleaning glovesqty 6

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Set the date, guest list and budget before booking suppliers. Your estimated headcount affects the venue, catering quantity, table layout, transport and the number of chairs, glasses and place settings.
  • Book the ceremony and party venues early, then confirm catering, photography, music and guest transport. Ask every supplier for a written delivery or arrival time at least 14 days before the wedding.
  • Collect dietary requirements when invitations are processed, not at the last minute. Give the caterer one final guest count and menu summary at least 7 days before the event.
  • Check the table plan against the equipment list: each guest needs a chair and dinner setting, while the reception may also need dessert plates, coffee cups, water and wine glasses, serving pieces and cake equipment.
  • In the final week, confirm deliveries, check the weather forecast and test the sound setup. Wireless microphones, speakers, the music player, mixer, extension cords and power strips should be assigned to one person for setup and troubleshooting.

Frequently asked questions

When should I send classic wedding invitations?
Send them around 8 to 12 weeks before the wedding, or earlier if many guests need to travel. Set the RSVP deadline about 4 weeks before the event so you can finalize catering, seating and dietary requirements.
How far in advance should I book wedding venues and suppliers?
Aim to reserve the ceremony and party venues, caterer, photographer and music at least 6 to 12 months ahead when possible. Confirm all arrival times and outstanding details again 14 days before the wedding.
When should I finalize the wedding menu and guest count?
Finalize the menu and guest count about 4 weeks before the wedding, after the RSVP deadline. Send the caterer the final dietary requirements and serving details no later than 7 days before the event.
What should I check the week before a classic wedding?
Use the final week to confirm deliveries, check the weather forecast, verify the rings, print the ceremony program and menus, and review transport arrangements. Complete the main confirmations by 7 days before the wedding so there is time to fix missing items.

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