Bereavement group meeting checklist

A bereavement group meeting needs a calm room, clear practical information, and careful preparation for the moments before people arrive. Start by securing a quiet venue and confirming the facilitators, then manage invitations, registrations, dietary needs, and access details. On the day, allow time to arrange the chairs in a circle, prepare refreshments, set up the memorial corner, and brief the supervisors. This checklist keeps the planning in order without losing sight of what attendees may need.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Reserve a quiet room

  • Confirm discussion facilitators

  • Draft invitation

  • Send invitations

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Send practical information

  • Create the attendance list

  • Prepare name badges

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Arrange keys and access

  • Check the venue

    2 people

  • Set up tables

    2 people

  • Arrange chairs in a circle

    2 people

  • Set up the welcome desk

  • Set up the memorial corner

    2 people

  • Set up the flip chart

  • Prepare coffee and tea

    2 people

  • Chill drinks

  • Set out snacks

    2 people

  • Prepare soup and bread

    2 people

  • Set out tableware and cutlery

  • Clearly mark dietary options

  • Prepare tissues and water

  • Inform the supervisors about the setup

    2 people

Event

  • Receive participants

    2 people

  • Register attendance

  • Explain the program and arrangements

  • Lead the opening ritual

    2 people

  • Lead the discussion round

    2 people

  • Serve drinks

    2 people

  • Refill drinks

  • Lead the break

    2 people

  • Offer individual support

    2 people

  • Serve dinner

    3 people

  • Lead the second round of interviews

    2 people

  • Guide the remembrance moment

    2 people

  • Provide a quiet break

  • Guide the closing discussion round

    2 people

  • Explain the closing and follow-up care

    2 people

  • See off participants personally

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Check for left-behind items

    2 people

  • Clear away food and drinks

    2 people

  • Wash dishes

    2 people

  • Put tables and chairs back

    2 people

  • Clean the room

    2 people

  • Collect and take away waste

  • Store attendance list securely

  • Lock up the venue

  • Return borrowed materials

  • Send a follow-up message

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Tablesqty 6
  • Chairsqty 24
  • Side tablesqty 3
  • Coat rack

Tableware

  • Coffee cupsqty 24
  • Drinking glassesqty 24
  • Soup bowlsqty 24
  • Platesqty 24
  • Cutlery setsqty 24
  • Serving spoonsqty 4
  • Serving traysqty 4

Decorations

  • Tableclothsqty 6
  • LED candlesqty 12
  • Flower vasesqty 3
  • Name badgesqty 24

Equipment

  • Kettlesqty 2
  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Thermos flasksqty 4
  • Coolersqty 2
  • Extension cordsqty 2
  • Flip chart
  • Markersqty 6

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 3
  • Bread knivesqty 2
  • Serving spoonsqty 3
  • Soup bowls with lidsqty 2
  • Pitcherqty 2
  • Serving plattersqty 6
  • Tea towelsqty 6

Cleaning

  • Bucketsqty 2
  • Cleaning clothsqty 8
  • Waste binsqty 3

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Book the quiet room and confirm the facilitators before sending invitations. Include the meeting time, access instructions, registration deadline, and a contact person so attendees know what to expect.
  • Process registrations as they arrive and record dietary requirements before buying food. Send practical information several days in advance, then make a final attendance list for name badges and catering.
  • Check the venue before the meeting starts, including keys, entry access, room temperature, toilets, and the position of tables and chairs. Allow at least 60 minutes for setup if the room is not already arranged.
  • Arrange the chairs in a circle and keep side tables nearby for water, tissues, and refreshments. Set up the welcome desk, flip chart, and memorial corner before attendees arrive, rather than moving equipment during the discussion.
  • Prepare coffee, tea, chilled drinks, snacks, soup, and bread close to the start time. Clearly mark dietary options, and keep serving equipment, tableware, tea towels, and cleaning buckets together so the food area can be reset quickly.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I organise a bereavement group meeting?
Reserve the room and confirm facilitators at least 3 to 4 weeks ahead. Send invitations once the date, location, access arrangements, and registration process are confirmed.
How long does it take to set up a bereavement group meeting?
Allow 60 to 90 minutes for setup, especially if you need to arrange a circle of chairs, a welcome desk, a memorial corner, refreshments, and a flip chart. Add extra time if keys or venue access are uncertain.
What refreshments should I provide for a bereavement group meeting?
Plan coffee, tea, water, chilled drinks, snacks, soup, and bread for the registered attendees. Confirm dietary requirements before shopping and label suitable options clearly.
When should I send practical information to attendees?
Send it at least 3 days before the meeting, including the address, arrival instructions, access details, timings, and what to do if someone can no longer attend. Send any final changes as soon as they are known.

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