Vintage wedding checklist: what to arrange and when

A vintage wedding needs more than a date, a venue and a colour palette. You also need to coordinate the guest list, dietary requirements, catering, ceremony paperwork, furniture, table settings, flowers, drinks and the final run sheet. Start with the date and venue, then work through guests and suppliers before ordering printed materials and hire items. In the final week, focus on collections, chilling drinks, food preparation and setting up clearly labelled areas such as the welcome desk, gift table and guest book.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Confirm wedding date and venue

    2 people

  • Compile guest list

    2 people

  • Design invitations

    2 people

  • Send invitations

    2 people

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Confirm the catering menu

    2 people

  • Make reservations

  • Confirm photographer

  • Assemble the music playlist

    2 people

  • Print the run sheet

  • Arrange the table layout

    2 people

  • Write name tags

    2 people

  • Print menus

  • Print ceremony texts

  • Pick up the bridal bouquet

  • Collect the flower arrangements

  • Do the shopping

    3 people

  • Picking up the cake

    2 people

  • Chill drinks

    2 people

  • Prepare snacks

    4 people

  • Cut vegetables and fruit

    2 people

  • Stock the coffee and tea station

    2 people

  • Lay out the ceremony program

  • Set up the welcome desk

    2 people

  • Set up tables

    4 people

  • Set up chairs

    4 people

  • Set up ceremony seating

    3 people

  • Lay out table linen

    3 people

  • Set out tableware

    3 people

  • Set out cutlery

    2 people

  • Set out glasses

    2 people

  • Hang decorations

    3 people

  • Place floral arrangements

    2 people

  • Place candles and lanterns

    2 people

  • Connect sound equipment

    2 people

  • Test the music

    2 people

  • Test the lighting

    2 people

  • Check toilets

  • Prepare bridal bouquet

  • Lay out the rings

Event

  • Welcome guests

    3 people

  • Serve welcome drinks

    3 people

  • Support the ceremony

    3 people

  • Photograph the ceremony

  • Take group photo

    2 people

  • Guide the cake cutting

    2 people

  • Serve cake and coffee

    4 people

  • Serve snacks

    4 people

  • Refill drinks

    2 people

  • Guide guests to dinner

    2 people

  • Serve dinner

    5 people

  • Serve diet meals

    2 people

  • Clear tables

    4 people

  • Serve coffee and tea

    3 people

  • Lead the first dance

    2 people

  • Provide music

  • Serve late-night snacks

    3 people

  • Close the bar

    2 people

  • Let guests say goodbye

    2 people

  • Collect gifts

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Chill food leftovers

    2 people

  • Collect waste

    3 people

  • Clear tables

    4 people

  • Stack chairs

    3 people

  • Pre-sort tableware

    3 people

  • Wash dishes

    3 people

  • Clean the kitchen

    2 people

  • Clean the venue

    4 people

  • Remove decorations

    3 people

  • Dismantle furniture

    4 people

  • Pack audio equipment

    2 people

  • Dismantle lighting

    2 people

  • Check stock

  • Gather borrowed items

    2 people

  • Return rental items

    2 people

  • Store decorative materials

    2 people

  • Distribute leftover food

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Round tablesqty 8
  • Buffet tablesqty 3
  • Ceremony chairsqty 90
  • Bride chairsqty 2
  • Vintage armchairsqty 2
  • Guestbook table
  • Gift table
  • Cake table
  • Bar stoolsqty 6
  • Clothes racksqty 2
  • Umbrella binsqty 2
  • Table linenqty 14
  • Chair coversqty 90
  • Party tentqty 2

Tableware

  • Dinner platesqty 100
  • Dessert platesqty 100
  • Soup bowlsqty 90
  • Coffee cupsqty 90
  • Water glassesqty 100
  • Wine glassesqty 100
  • Champagne glassesqty 90
  • Coffee spoonsqty 100
  • Dinner cutlery setsqty 100
  • Serving spoonsqty 12

Decorations

  • Vintage vasesqty 24
  • Table numbersqty 8
  • Name card holdersqty 90
  • Guest book
  • Guestbook pensqty 3
  • Welcome sign
  • Ceremony board
  • Chalkboardsqty 4
  • Chalk markersqty 6
  • Buntingqty 12
  • Lace table runnersqty 8
  • Edge ribbon rollsqty 6
  • Photo framesqty 12
  • Polaroid camera
  • Polaroid filmqty 6
  • Ring pillow
  • Cake topper
  • Confetti bagsqty 90
  • Clothes hangersqty 20

Equipment

  • Coolersqty 4
  • Refrigeratorsqty 2
  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Kettlesqty 2
  • Bluetooth speakersqty 2
  • Microphonesqty 2
  • Microphone standsqty 2
  • Extension cordsqty 6
  • Power stripsqty 6
  • Charging cablesqty 6

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 8
  • Lanternsqty 16
  • LED candlesqty 60
  • Standing lampsqty 4

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 6
  • Chef's knivesqty 4
  • Serving plattersqty 16
  • Serving traysqty 8
  • Cake knife
  • Ice cube traysqty 6

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 6
  • Broom setsqty 2
  • Mopsqty 2
  • Cleaning glovesqty 6

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Confirm the date and venue before designing invitations. Send invitations only after you can state the ceremony and reception details clearly, then allow time to process replies and chase missing registrations.
  • Ask for dietary requirements when guests register, not during the final week. Give the caterer one consolidated list before confirming the menu and seating plan.
  • Print the run sheet, ceremony texts, menus, table numbers and name tags in advance. Keep spare copies at the welcome desk and give the person running the day a final version.
  • Check every hired area against the layout: ceremony chairs, round tables, buffet tables, vintage armchairs, the bar and the cake table. Do this at least one day before guests arrive so missing furniture can still be found.
  • Treat food, flowers and drinks as timed collections. Pick up the bridal bouquet, flower arrangements and cake on the agreed schedule, chill drinks before service, and prepare snacks, cut fruit and the coffee and tea station before guests sit down.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I send vintage wedding invitations?
Send them around 8 to 12 weeks before the wedding, or earlier if many guests need to travel. Set the RSVP deadline at least 4 weeks before the event so you have time to confirm numbers, dietary requirements and the catering menu.
When should I finalise the vintage wedding seating plan?
Finalise it about 2 weeks before the wedding, once most registrations are complete. Print table numbers, name tags and menus during the final week, leaving a small number of blank name cards for late changes.
How much food and drink should I prepare for a vintage wedding?
Use the confirmed guest count as the base for the catering order and add a small buffer agreed with the caterer. For drinks, plan roughly 2 to 3 drinks per guest during the first hour, then adjust for the rest of the reception, while keeping water, coffee and tea available throughout.
What should be done the day before a vintage wedding?
Print and pack the run sheet, ceremony program and menus, check the furniture and tableware layout, and set aside decorations such as vintage vases and the welcome sign. Prepare snacks, cut fruit and vegetables, stock the coffee and tea station, and chill drinks where possible.

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