Funeral service checklist and planning guide

A funeral service involves more than booking a ceremony venue. You also need to coordinate the condolence room, service program, speakers, music, flowers, transport, catering and printed materials. This checklist helps you work through those arrangements in a practical order, from confirming the date and location to setting up the room. It also highlights details that are easy to leave until the last few days, such as accessibility needs, dietary requirements, technical checks and the final catering count.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Confirm date and location

    2 people

  • Reserve church or hall

  • Reserve a condolence room

  • Check funeral card text

    2 people

  • Have funeral cards printed

  • Send invitations

    2 people

  • Send online invitation

  • Register sign-ups

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Assess special accessibility needs

  • Prepare the service program

    2 people

  • Confirm speakers and pastor

  • Select music and songs

    2 people

  • Collect texts for presentations

    2 people

  • Select photo for memorial

    2 people

  • Order flower arrangements

  • Book catering

  • Reserve technical equipment

  • Confirm transportation for family

  • Create final guest list

  • Report number of catering portions

  • Check the program booklets

    2 people

  • Lay out program booklets

    2 people

  • Prepare condolence register

  • Print souvenir photo

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Collect the flower arrangements

  • Clean the venue

    3 people

  • Set up tables

    3 people

  • Set up chairs

    3 people

  • Set up the lectern and podium

    2 people

  • Place floral arrangements

    2 people

  • Set up memorial table

    2 people

  • Connect the technical equipment

    2 people

  • Test music and microphones

    2 people

  • Lay out program booklets

    2 people

  • Set out coffee and tea

    2 people

  • Set up the reception table

    2 people

Event

  • Welcome family and speakers

    3 people

  • Welcome guests

    4 people

  • Distribute program

    2 people

  • Guide the condolences

    3 people

  • Lead funeral service

    3 people

  • Play music during the service

  • Assist speakers

  • Guide guests to the condolence room

    2 people

  • Serve coffee and tea

    4 people

  • Serve snacks

    3 people

  • Refill drinks

    2 people

  • Support the condolence register

  • Check dietary requirements

  • Guide the family to the farewell moment

    2 people

  • See off the last guests

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Collect tableware

    3 people

  • Collect waste

    2 people

  • Pack floral arrangements safely

    2 people

  • Switch off the equipment

    2 people

  • Clear tables and chairs

    4 people

  • Wash dishes

    3 people

  • Clean the venue

    3 people

  • Check toilets

  • Collect lost and found items

  • Hand over keys and venue

  • Return borrowed materials

    2 people

  • Safely hand over the condolence register

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Chairsqty 80
  • Tablesqty 8
  • Reception desk
  • Speaker table
  • Coat racksqty 3

Tableware

  • Coffee cupsqty 80
  • Glassesqty 80
  • Cake platesqty 80
  • Teaspoonsqty 80
  • Serving spoonsqty 8

Kitchen

  • Coffee machinesqty 2
  • Kettlesqty 2
  • Thermos flasksqty 6
  • Serving plattersqty 8
  • Serving traysqty 6
  • Milk and sugar bowlsqty 6

Equipment

  • Wireless microphonesqty 2
  • Speakersqty 2
  • Audio mixer
  • Laptop
  • HDMI adapter
  • Extension cordsqty 4
  • Power stripsqty 4

Decorations

  • Flower arrangementsqty 4
  • Photo frame
  • Electric candlesqty 6
  • White table runnersqty 8

Paper goods

  • Program bookletsqty 90
  • Condolence register
  • Writing pensqty 12
  • Name badgesqty 20

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 4
  • Bucketsqty 2
  • Cleaning clothsqty 12
  • Trash bag holdersqty 4

Other

  • Umbrella binsqty 2
  • Cable tiesqty 20

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Confirm the date, church or hall, and condolence room first. Keep one written schedule with arrival times for the family, speakers, pastor, caterer and any transport provider.
  • Complete the guest information before ordering catering. Record dietary requirements and accessibility needs, then give the caterer the final portion count as soon as registrations close.
  • Prepare the service content early. Confirm speakers and the pastor, select the music, collect presentation texts, check the memorial photo, and proofread the service program before printing.
  • Test every technical item at the venue, including wireless microphones, speakers, the audio mixer, laptop, HDMI adapter and power supplies. Do this at least one day before the service rather than during guest arrival.
  • Set up the condolence area with the register, pens, reception desk, photo frame and printed souvenir photos before doors open. Lay out program booklets and check that coffee service, cups, glasses and serving equipment are ready.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I arrange a funeral service?
Confirm the venue, date, pastor or speakers and family transport as soon as the funeral date is known. Aim to finish the program, music and printed materials at least 2 to 3 days before the service.
How many funeral service programs should I print?
Print one booklet per expected guest, plus around 10 extra copies for late confirmations, speakers and family members. Check the final guest list before sending the print quantity.
When should I give the caterer the final number of portions?
Send the final catering count after registrations close and no later than 2 to 3 days before the service. Include recorded dietary requirements with the same update.
What should be checked before a funeral service starts?
Allow at least 60 minutes for setup and a technical test. Check the microphones, speakers, laptop connection, power strips, seating, flowers, program booklets, condolence register and coffee service before guests arrive.

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