Friendship Day planning checklist

A Friendship Day event needs more than invitations and a barbecue. You also need a clear program, registration tracking, dietary information, game zones, seating, shelter, sound and a practical food setup. Start with the date and venue, then confirm attendance before buying food and drinks. On the day itself, allow enough time to inspect the grounds, build the party tents, set up the buffet and brief volunteers before guests arrive.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Set the date and program

    2 people

  • Reserve the venue and grounds

  • Draft invitations

    2 people

  • Send invitations

    2 people

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Update participant list

  • Prepare the game schedule

    3 people

  • Check game materials

    2 people

  • Finalize the shopping list

    2 people

  • Do the shopping

    3 people

  • Store drinks refrigerated

    2 people

  • Separate meat and vegetarian food

    2 people

  • Prepare snacks

    3 people

  • Prepare barbecue

    2 people

  • Inspect the grounds

    2 people

  • Set up tables and chairs

    4 people

  • Build party tents

    4 people

  • Set out game zones

    3 people

  • Hang decorations

    3 people

  • Connect the sound system

    2 people

  • Set up the buffet and bar

    3 people

  • Set out tableware and cutlery

    2 people

  • Set up the registration table

  • Brief volunteers

    2 people

Event

  • Welcome guests

    3 people

  • Explain the program and house rules

    2 people

  • Lead the game rounds

    6 people

  • Refill drinks

    2 people

  • Serve snacks

    3 people

  • Light the barbecue

    2 people

  • Serve barbecue

    4 people

  • Serve dessert and marshmallows

    3 people

  • Supervise the evening game

    5 people

  • Operate music and lighting

  • See off guests and manage departure

    3 people

Aftercare

  • Collect waste

    4 people

  • Safely extinguish barbecue

    2 people

  • Clear tables and chairs

    4 people

  • Take down party tents

    4 people

  • Wash dishes and cutlery

    3 people

  • Clean the venue

    4 people

  • Sort game equipment

    2 people

  • Switch off equipment

    2 people

  • Collect lost and found items

  • Chill leftover food

    2 people

  • Return materials

    2 people

  • Take waste to the collection point

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tentsqty 2
  • Foldable tablesqty 6
  • Folding chairsqty 50
  • Beer tablesqty 4
  • Buffet tablesqty 3
  • Bar
  • Registration desk
  • Waste binsqty 6

Tableware

  • Reusable platesqty 60
  • Reusable bowlsqty 60
  • Reusable cupsqty 100
  • Cutlery setsqty 60
  • Serving spoonsqty 8
  • Small bowlsqty 12
  • Serving traysqty 6

Kitchen

  • Barbecueqty 2
  • Barbecue tongsqty 4
  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Chef’s knives and bread knivesqty 6
  • Coolersqty 4
  • Thermos flasksqty 4
  • Water jugsqty 6
  • Food containersqty 12
  • Aluminum barbecue traysqty 6

Equipment

  • Bluetooth speakersqty 2
  • Microphone
  • Extension cordsqty 4
  • Power stripsqty 4
  • Rechargeable batteriesqty 12

Sports equipment

  • Footballsqty 4
  • Volleyballqty 2
  • Frisbeesqty 6
  • Conesqty 30
  • Tug of war rope
  • Skipping ropesqty 6
  • Water balloonsqty 200

Decorations

  • Buntingqty 8
  • Balloonsqty 100
  • Tableclothsqty 8
  • Name stickersqty 80
  • Markersqty 12
  • Directional signsqty 8

Lighting

  • LED light stringsqty 4
  • LED lampsqty 6
  • Flashlightsqty 6

Cleaning

  • Washing-up basinsqty 3
  • Spongesqty 12
  • Dish brushesqty 4
  • Bucketsqty 4
  • Broom setsqty 3
  • Mopsqty 3
  • Work glovesqty 8

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Set the date, program and venue before sending invitations. Give guests a clear registration deadline at least 10 to 14 days before Friendship Day so you can update the participant list and collect dietary requirements.
  • Check the game schedule and materials several days ahead, not on the morning itself. Mark separate game zones and keep footballs and other equipment together so volunteers can reset activities quickly.
  • Buy food only after registrations are reasonably complete. Separate meat and vegetarian food from the moment you unpack it, and prepare snacks before the barbecue gets busy.
  • Plan the site setup backwards from guest arrival. Building party tents, placing tables and chairs, setting out the buffet and bar, and connecting speakers can easily take 2 to 3 hours with a small team.
  • Create a clear drinks and waste system. Keep drinks refrigerated, place water jugs where people can refill easily, and position waste bins near the buffet, bar and game areas rather than in one corner.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a Friendship Day event?
Set the date and reserve the venue 4 to 6 weeks ahead if possible. Send invitations at least 3 weeks before the event and close registrations 10 to 14 days beforehand.
How much food and drink do I need for Friendship Day?
Use the final participant list rather than guessing from the invitation count. For drinks, plan roughly 2 to 3 servings per person for the first hour, then about 1 serving per hour, with extra water available throughout.
When should I set up the Friendship Day venue?
Start the physical setup 2 to 3 hours before guests arrive. Inspect the grounds first, then build the tents, place furniture, mark game zones, set up the registration desk, and finish the buffet, bar and sound system.
What should I check the day before Friendship Day?
Confirm the participant list, dietary requirements, shopping list, game materials and volunteer roles 24 hours beforehand. Also check coolers, extension cords, power strips, rechargeable batteries and the barbecue equipment before loading them.

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