A practical checklist for organising a friends' barbecue

A friends' barbecue is easiest to manage when you settle the guest count before buying food or arranging the garden. Start with invitations, registrations and dietary requirements, then confirm the forecast and check the barbecue, coolers and shopping list. On the day, prepare salads and vegetables early, chill drinks, and set up separate areas for dining, serving and coffee. Leave enough time to light the barbecue safely before guests arrive.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Send invitations

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Determine the final number of guests

  • Check the weather forecast

  • Check the shopping list

  • Check the barbecue and coolers

    2 people

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Chill drinks

  • Marinate meat and vegetarian dishes

    2 people

  • Wash and cut vegetables

    2 people

  • Prepare salads

    2 people

  • Set out dessert and fruit

  • Clear the garden and terrace

    2 people

  • Set up party tent

    3 people

  • Set up tables and chairs

    3 people

  • Hang lighting

    2 people

  • Hang decorations

    2 people

  • Place barbecue safely

    2 people

  • Set up the buffet table

    2 people

  • Set out tableware and cutlery

    2 people

  • Set out sauces and salads

    2 people

  • Set up the coffee and tea station

  • Set out welcome drinks

Event

  • Light the barbecue

    2 people

  • Welcome guests

    2 people

  • Serve snacks

    2 people

  • Refill drinks

    2 people

  • Grill meat and vegetables

    2 people

  • Serve barbecue dishes

    2 people

  • Restock the buffet

    2 people

  • Serve coffee and tea

  • Serve dessert

  • Handle the final drinks round

  • Collect waste along the way

Aftercare

  • Store food and drinks

    2 people

  • Wash dishes and cutlery

    2 people

  • Clean the barbecue

    2 people

  • Clear tables and chairs

    3 people

  • Take down the party tent

    3 people

  • Remove decorations and lighting

    2 people

  • Clean the garden and patio

    2 people

  • Take out the trash

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tent
  • Tablesqty 4
  • Chairsqty 24
  • Buffet table
  • Folding chairsqty 4

Tableware

  • Platesqty 30
  • Bowlsqty 24
  • Cutlery setsqty 30
  • Drinking glassesqty 30
  • Wine glassesqty 20
  • Coffee cupsqty 20
  • Serving plattersqty 8
  • Serving tongsqty 4

Equipment

  • Charcoal barbecue
  • Coolersqty 3
  • Wireless speaker
  • Extension cordqty 2
  • Core thermometer
  • Lighterqty 2

Kitchen

  • Chef's knifeqty 2
  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Grill tongsqty 3
  • Aluminum foilqty 2

Decorations

  • Buntingqty 4
  • Tableclothsqty 4
  • Lanternsqty 6

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 3
  • LED lanternsqty 4

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 3
  • Bucketsqty 2
  • Dish brushesqty 2
  • Reusable cleaning clothsqty 8

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Set a firm RSVP deadline about 7 days before the barbecue. Use the final guest count to adjust meat, vegetarian food, drinks, plates and seating rather than shopping from an early estimate.
  • Check the weather 24 hours before the event and decide whether the party tent can cover the tables and buffet. Put the barbecue on a stable, clear surface away from the tent, decorations and seating.
  • Chill drinks in the coolers at least 3 hours before guests arrive. Keep a separate supply of water available so people are not relying only on alcoholic drinks in warm weather.
  • Prepare vegetables, salads and marinades earlier in the day, but keep meat and vegetarian food refrigerated until needed. A core thermometer and separate serving tools help prevent undercooked food and cross-contamination.
  • Set up the buffet, tableware, sauces, lighting and waste bins before lighting the barbecue. Aim to have the grill hot 20–30 minutes before the planned meal so cooking does not start after everyone is already hungry.

Frequently asked questions

How much food do I need for a friends' barbecue?
Plan roughly 300–400 g of uncooked main food per adult, including meat and vegetarian options, plus salads, bread or other sides. Add about 10% if guests will be eating over several hours or if there are few side dishes.
How many drinks should I buy for a barbecue?
For the first hour, allow around 2–3 drinks per person, then about 1 drink per person per hour. Include water and soft drinks, and chill them at least 3 hours before guests arrive.
When should I send barbecue invitations?
Send invitations 2–3 weeks in advance and set the RSVP deadline 7 days before the barbecue. That gives you time to collect dietary requirements, confirm the final number and complete the shopping.
When should I light the barbecue?
Light a charcoal barbecue about 30–45 minutes before you plan to serve the food. Start cooking when the coals are hot and covered with a grey-white ash, and keep the barbecue away from the party tent and combustible decorations.

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