A practical checklist for organising a children's party

A children’s party is easier to run when the decisions are made in the right order. Start with the theme, programme and guest list, then confirm registrations, dietary requirements and parent contacts before booking activities or ordering the cake. In the final week, check materials and shopping; on the day, set up the space, food, drinks and game stations before guests arrive. This checklist keeps the small but time-sensitive jobs from being left until the last hour.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Determine Theme and Program

  • Compile the guest list

  • Send invitations

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Check parent contacts

  • Reserve activities

  • Order cake

  • Check the shopping list

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Pick up cake and chilled items

  • Check activity materials

    2 people

  • Prepare game rules

  • Create a music playlist

  • Clean up the space

    2 people

  • Fill coolers

  • Set up tables and chairs

    2 people

  • Set up party tent

    3 people

  • Hang decorations

    2 people

  • Set up game stations

    2 people

  • Set Dining Tables

    2 people

  • Prepare snacks

    2 people

  • Chill drinks

  • Set up the reception desk

Event

  • Welcome guests

    2 people

  • Collect gifts

  • Serve welcome drinks

    2 people

  • Lead the birthday game

    2 people

  • Serve snacks

    2 people

  • Refill drinks

  • Supervise outdoor games

    3 people

  • Hand out snack breaks

    2 people

  • Supervise the evening game

    3 people

  • Cut the cake

    2 people

  • Serve fries and snacks

    3 people

  • Coordinate music and dancing

    2 people

  • Oversee gift unwrapping

  • Arrange pickup for children

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Collect waste

    2 people

  • Wash dishes

    2 people

  • Clear away food and drinks

    2 people

  • Clear tables and chairs

    2 people

  • Take down the party tent

    3 people

  • Clean the room

    2 people

  • Sort activity materials

    2 people

  • Return borrowed items

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tent
  • Foldable tablesqty 4
  • Children's chairsqty 24
  • Adult chairsqty 8
  • Gift table
  • Buffet tableqty 2

Tableware

  • Reusable cupsqty 40
  • Children's platesqty 30
  • Adult platesqty 12
  • Cutlery setsqty 40
  • Serving plattersqty 8
  • Cake platesqty 30
  • Cake knife

Decorations

  • Balloonsqty 100
  • Balloon arch
  • Buntingqty 6
  • Tableclothsqty 6
  • Party hatsqty 25
  • Gift bagsqty 25
  • Gift stickersqty 30

Equipment

  • Bluetooth speaker
  • Extension cordsqty 2
  • Power stripsqty 2
  • Coolersqty 3
  • Thermos flasksqty 2

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 2
  • Chef's knife
  • Measuring cupsqty 2
  • Kitchen tongsqty 2
  • Ice cube traysqty 4

Sports equipment

  • Footballsqty 2
  • Soft play ballsqty 6
  • Hoopsqty 6
  • Conesqty 20
  • Skipping ropesqty 8
  • Water gunsqty 20
  • Treasure chest
  • Treasure Map Cardsqty 25
  • Prize cupsqty 25

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 3
  • Outdoor lightsqty 2

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 4
  • Bucketsqty 2
  • Broom
  • Dustpan and brush
  • Mop

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Send invitations early enough to process replies and collect dietary requirements before ordering food. A useful deadline is 7–10 days before the party, with parent contact details checked at the same time.
  • Book activities and prepare the game rules before the final week. Keep each activity’s materials together and allow at least 10 minutes between planned games for transitions, drinks or unexpected delays.
  • Order the cake only after you know the final guest count and any dietary needs. Plan to collect the cake and chilled items on the day, rather than leaving both jobs until the party has already started.
  • Set up the practical layout before adding decorations: reception desk, gift table, dining tables, chairs and game stations first. Leave a clear route for children and keep adult chairs near the areas where supervision is needed.
  • Chill drinks and fill the coolers before guests arrive, then put out reusable cups, children’s plates, cake plates and serving utensils separately. Test the Bluetooth speaker, extension cords and power strips before the music or activities depend on them.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I organise a children's party?
Start planning 3–4 weeks ahead. Send invitations early in that period, set an RSVP deadline 7–10 days before the party, and use the final week to confirm food, cake, activities and materials.
When should I order the cake for a children's party?
Order the cake once registrations have closed, usually 7–10 days before the party. Confirm the number of servings and dietary requirements, then arrange collection of the cake and chilled items on the day.
How long before the party should I start setting up?
Allow at least 2 hours for setup, especially if you are assembling a party tent, arranging tables and chairs, hanging decorations and creating game stations. Finish food and drink setup shortly before guests arrive.
How many drinks do I need for a children's party?
Plan around 2–3 drinks per child for the first 2 hours, plus water available throughout. Chill them in advance and keep extra cups ready so serving does not interrupt the activities.

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