Family barbecue checklist: what to arrange and when

A family barbecue is easier to run when the practical jobs are spread across several days. Start with guests, dietary requirements and quantities, then arrange furniture, equipment and weather cover before shopping. The day before, prepare food that keeps well and chill the drinks. On the day itself, allow time for the garden, tables, buffet, barbecue and toilet to be ready before guests arrive.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • Compile guest list

  • Send invitations

  • Process registrations

  • Collect dietary requirements

  • Determine menu and quantities

    2 people

  • Reserve tables and chairs

  • Check the weather forecast

  • Finalize shopping list

  • Do the shopping

    2 people

  • Collect reusable items

    2 people

  • Clear the garden and patio

    2 people

  • Check tableware and materials

    2 people

  • Marinate meat and vegetables

    2 people

  • Prepare salads

    2 people

  • Prepare dessert and fruit

  • Chill drinks

    2 people

  • Prepare the toilet and sink

  • Set up party tent

    3 people

  • Set up tables and chairs

    3 people

  • Set the tables

    2 people

  • Hang decorations

    2 people

  • Set up barbecue and worktables

    2 people

  • Set up the buffet and drinks station

    2 people

  • Lay out game materials

Event

  • Light the barbecue

    2 people

  • Welcome guests

    2 people

  • Serve aperitifs and snacks

    2 people

  • Grill meat and vegetables

    3 people

  • Restock the buffet

    2 people

  • Refill drinks

  • Serve coffee and tea

    2 people

  • Serve dessert and fruit

    2 people

  • Store leftovers in the fridge

    2 people

  • Safely extinguish barbecue

    2 people

Aftercare

  • Collect and sort waste

    2 people

  • Wash dishes

    3 people

  • Clean tables and chairs

    2 people

  • Clean the garden and patio

    2 people

  • Take down the party tent

    3 people

  • Sort and store materials

    2 people

  • Return rental items

    2 people

  • Take waste to the collection point

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tent
  • Foldable tablesqty 5
  • Chairsqty 40
  • Buffet table
  • Parasolsqty 2
  • Tableclothsqty 6

Tableware

  • Dinner platesqty 50
  • Bowlsqty 40
  • Dessert platesqty 40
  • Drinking glassesqty 60
  • Wine glassesqty 40
  • Coffee mugsqty 40
  • Cutlery setsqty 50
  • Serving boardsqty 8

Decorations

  • Buntingqty 3
  • Balloonsqty 40
  • Flower vasesqty 4
  • Table decorationsqty 6

Equipment

  • Barbecuesqty 2
  • Coolersqty 3
  • Bluetooth speaker
  • Extension cordsqty 2
  • Power stripsqty 2
  • Meat thermometer

Kitchen

  • Barbecue tongsqty 4
  • Barbecue spatulasqty 2
  • Serving spoonsqty 8
  • Cutting boardsqty 3
  • Chef's knivesqty 3
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Serving plattersqty 8
  • Thermos flasksqty 2
  • Ice scoop
  • Food storage containersqty 10

Cleaning

  • Bucketsqty 2
  • Broomsqty 2
  • Dustpans
  • Mopsqty 2
  • Toilet brush

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 4
  • LED lanternsqty 4

Sports equipment

  • Badminton set
  • Soccer
  • Frisbeesqty 2

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Send invitations and collect dietary requirements early enough to adjust the menu and quantities. A clear guest count also tells you how many chairs, plates, glasses and portions you need.
  • Check the weather forecast twice: once before finalizing the shopping list and again on the morning of the barbecue. Set up the party tent, parasols or indoor backup before rain becomes an immediate problem.
  • Do the main shopping at least one day ahead, especially for meat, vegetables, salads, fruit and drinks. Chill drinks overnight and keep separate coolers available so guests are not opening the food cooler repeatedly.
  • Prepare salads, dessert and fruit before the barbecue day where possible, but leave grilling and final serving until the event. Marinate meat and vegetables in covered containers and keep them refrigerated until needed.
  • Set up the barbecue and worktables before lighting the charcoal or grill. Keep tongs, spatulas, a meat thermometer and serving utensils at the cooking station so nobody has to search for them while food is cooking.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a family barbecue?
Start the guest list and invitations about 2–3 weeks ahead. Confirm registrations and dietary requirements at least 7 days before the barbecue so you can finalize quantities and the shopping list.
How much food do I need for a family barbecue?
For a mixed menu, plan roughly 300–400 g of uncooked meat, fish or vegetarian main food per adult, plus side dishes. Children usually need about half that amount; add 10% if the guest count is uncertain.
When should I set up the garden for a barbecue?
Clear the garden and patio the day before, then set up tables, chairs, shade and the buffet 2–3 hours before guests arrive. Leave lighting the barbecue until the food station and serving equipment are ready.
How many drinks should I buy for a family barbecue?
Allow 2–3 drinks per person for the first hour, then about 1 drink per person per hour. Add water and non-alcoholic options for every guest, and chill the drinks at least 12 hours in advance.

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