How to organise a kids’ barbecue

A kids’ barbecue needs more structure than simply putting food on the grill. Start with the guest list, invitations and dietary information, then work backwards from serving time to plan shopping, chilling drinks and preparing vegetables and sauces. On the day, set up shaded seating, the barbecue and buffet before guests arrive, and have a scavenger hunt or music ready for children who finish eating early. Keep raw meat refrigerated until it goes on the grill and check the forecast before committing to outdoor-only plans.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • 1

    Compile the guest list

  • 2

    Send invitations

  • 3

    Process registrations

  • 4

    Collect dietary requirements

  • 5

    Check allergies

  • 6

    Reserve barbecue

  • 7

    Check the weather forecast

  • 8

    Check the shopping list

  • 9

    Do the shopping

    2 people

  • 10

    Chill drinks

    2 people

  • 11

    Keep meat refrigerated

  • 12

    Wash vegetables

    2 people

  • 13

    Cut vegetables

    2 people

  • 14

    Portion sauces

  • 15

    Prepare scavenger hunt

    2 people

  • 16

    Compile music list

  • 17

    Collect materials

    2 people

  • 18

    Inspect the grounds

    2 people

  • 19

    Set up party tent

    4 people

  • 20

    Set up tables

    3 people

  • 21

    Set out chairs

    3 people

  • 22

    Set up the barbecue and gas

    2 people

  • 23

    Set up the buffet table

    2 people

  • 24

    Set out tableware and cutlery

    2 people

  • 25

    Hang decorations

    2 people

  • 26

    Lay out game materials

    2 people

  • 27

    Connect the music

  • 28

    Clear the safety zone

    2 people

  • 29

    Set up the welcome table

Event

  • 30

    Welcome guests

    2 people

  • 31

    Welcome children

    2 people

  • 32

    Supervise free play

    3 people

  • 33

    Light the barbecue

    2 people

  • 34

    Serve salads and bread

    2 people

  • 35

    Prepare barbecue dishes

    3 people

  • 36

    Serving food

    3 people

  • 37

    Refill drinks

    2 people

  • 38

    Guide the scavenger hunt

    3 people

  • 39

    Serve dessert

    2 people

  • 40

    Supervise free activities

    3 people

  • 41

    Serve evening snacks

    2 people

  • 42

    See off guests

    2 people

Aftercare

  • 43

    Cool leftovers safely

    2 people

  • 44

    Collect waste

    3 people

  • 45

    Extinguish barbecue

    2 people

  • 46

    Wash dishes

    3 people

  • 47

    Clear tables and chairs

    3 people

  • 48

    Remove decorations

    2 people

  • 49

    Clean the grounds

    3 people

  • 50

    Store materials dry

    2 people

  • 51

    Return barbecue

    2 people

  • 52

    Empty coolers

  • 53

    Process leftover food

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tentqty 2
  • Foldable tablesqty 6
  • Folding chairsqty 40
  • Picnic benchesqty 4
  • Buffet tablesqty 2

Tableware

  • Platesqty 50
  • Bowlsqty 40
  • Drinking glassesqty 60
  • Coffee cupsqty 20
  • Forksqty 50
  • Knivesqty 50
  • Serving spoonsqty 8

Equipment

  • Barbecueqty 2
  • Gas cylindersqty 2
  • Coolersqty 4
  • Extension cordsqty 2
  • Bluetooth speaker
  • Rechargeable lampsqty 4

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Kitchen knivesqty 4
  • Barbecue tongsqty 4
  • Barbecue spatulasqty 2
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Serving plattersqty 8
  • Measuring cupsqty 2
  • Aluminum grill traysqty 6

Decorations

  • Tableclothsqty 8
  • Balloonsqty 40
  • Buntingqty 4
  • Name badgesqty 40

Sports equipment

  • Footballsqty 2
  • Frisbeesqty 3
  • Sidewalk chalkqty 4
  • Scavenger hunt arrowsqty 20

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 4
  • Bucketsqty 3
  • Spongesqty 6
  • Rubber glovesqty 4

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 3
  • Flashlightsqty 4

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Collect allergies and dietary requirements when guests register, then check them against every dish before shopping. Keep sauces and prepared food clearly separated so children with allergies are not relying on guesswork.
  • Set up the party tent, tables, chairs, buffet and barbecue before guests arrive. Allow at least 60 minutes for this, including checking the barbecue, gas cylinder, extension cords and ground conditions.
  • Prepare vegetables, sauces and serving platters earlier in the day, but keep meat refrigerated until needed. Chill drinks in coolers before the first guests arrive and reserve a separate cooler for food if possible.
  • Plan one activity for the first hour, such as a scavenger hunt, and prepare its materials before the barbecue starts. This prevents children from gathering around the grill while adults are cooking.
  • Use rechargeable lamps and check the forecast before setting up. If rain is possible, place tables and the buffet under the party tent and decide in advance where children can continue the activity safely.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a kids’ barbecue?
Send invitations about 3 to 4 weeks before the barbecue and set a registration deadline 7 days before it. Use the final guest list to confirm food quantities, allergies, seating and activities.
What time should I start setting up a kids’ barbecue?
Start setup at least 60 minutes before guests arrive, or 90 minutes if you are assembling a party tent and several tables. The barbecue, gas and buffet should be ready before children enter the cooking area.
How do I keep food safe at a kids’ barbecue?
Keep raw meat refrigerated until it goes onto the barbecue and use separate boards and utensils for raw and ready-to-eat food. Do not leave perishable food in the sun for more than 2 hours; use coolers and serve smaller portions at a time.
What activities work well at a kids’ barbecue?
Prepare one structured activity for the first hour, such as a scavenger hunt, and have music ready for transitions. Allow roughly 30 to 45 minutes for the activity so children have something to do while adults cook and serve.

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