How to organise a farewell barbecue

Start by fixing the date and location, then work backwards from the time guests will eat. Guest numbers affect vegetarian portions, meat, seating, drinks and the size of the barbecue or party tent, so set a registration deadline before shopping. Handle equipment and non-perishable food first; leave fresh groceries, chilled drinks and salads for the final days. On the day, create separate areas for cooking, serving, seating and music so guests are not moving through the barbecue workspace.

The plan, step by step

Every task with its own sub-checklist, in the order you'll actually need them.

Preparations

  • 1

    Confirm date and location

  • 2

    Send invitations

  • 3

    Process registrations

  • 4

    Collect dietary requirements

  • 5

    Determine the final number of guests

  • 6

    Reserve vegetarian portions

  • 7

    Reserve barbecue

  • 8

    Reserve a party tent

  • 9

    Arrange music and playlist

  • 10

    Check the shopping list

  • 11

    Do non-perishable shopping

    2 people

  • 12

    Buy fresh groceries

    2 people

  • 13

    Chill drinks

    2 people

  • 14

    Store meat and meat alternatives

  • 15

    Wash and cut vegetables

    2 people

  • 16

    Prepare salads

    2 people

  • 17

    Prepare marinades and sauces

  • 18

    Set up tables and chairs

    3 people

  • 19

    Set up party tent

    3 people

  • 20

    Set up barbecue safely

    2 people

  • 21

    Set up buffet tables

    2 people

  • 22

    Set out tableware and cutlery

    2 people

  • 23

    Hang decorations

    2 people

  • 24

    Connect lighting

    2 people

  • 25

    Test the music

  • 26

    Place waste stations

Event

  • 27

    Set out welcome drinks

    2 people

  • 28

    Welcome guests

    2 people

  • 29

    Refill drinks

    2 people

  • 30

    Serve snacks

    2 people

  • 31

    Light the barbecue

    2 people

  • 32

    Prepare barbecue dishes

    3 people

  • 33

    Restock the buffet

    2 people

  • 34

    Keep vegetarian dishes separate

  • 35

    Serve coffee and tea

  • 36

    Guide the farewell moment

  • 37

    Chill leftovers safely

    2 people

  • 38

    See off guests

    2 people

Aftercare

  • 39

    Collect waste

    2 people

  • 40

    Wash dishes and cutlery

    2 people

  • 41

    Empty coolers

  • 42

    Clean the barbecue

    2 people

  • 43

    Clear tables and chairs

    3 people

  • 44

    Take down the party tent

    3 people

  • 45

    Clean the venue

    3 people

  • 46

    Remove decorations

    2 people

  • 47

    Return rental items

    2 people

What to bring

Grouped the way you'd shop for it, with quantities.

Furniture

  • Party tent
  • Tablesqty 6
  • Chairsqty 45
  • Buffet tablesqty 2
  • High tablesqty 3

Tableware

  • Reusable platesqty 50
  • Reusable bowlsqty 25
  • Reusable glassesqty 60
  • Coffee cupsqty 30
  • Cutlery setsqty 50
  • Serving spoonsqty 8
  • Small bowlsqty 12

Equipment

  • Barbecueqty 2
  • Coolersqty 4
  • Coffee maker
  • Kettle
  • Bluetooth speaker

Kitchen

  • Cutting boardsqty 4
  • Chef's knivesqty 3
  • Mixing bowlsqty 4
  • Serving tongsqty 4
  • Aluminum traysqty 10
  • Storage binsqty 8
  • Aluminum foilqty 2
  • Cling film

Decorations

  • Buntingqty 6
  • Balloonsqty 40
  • Tableclothsqty 8

Lighting

  • String lightsqty 4
  • LED lampsqty 6

Cleaning

  • Waste binsqty 4
  • Hand broomsqty 2
  • Dustpan and brushqty 2
  • Mop
  • Bucketsqty 2

Catering

  • Groceries

Tips

  • Set an RSVP deadline at least 7 days before the barbecue. Use the final guest count to confirm vegetarian portions, tableware, seating and the amount of food and drinks.
  • Reserve the barbecue and party tent as soon as the date and location are confirmed, ideally 2–3 weeks ahead. Check that the tent, tables and chairs fit the available space before delivery or collection.
  • Do non-perishable shopping 3–5 days before the event, then buy fresh vegetables, salads and other chilled groceries within 24–48 hours of serving. Keep meat and meat alternatives refrigerated until they go on the barbecue.
  • Prepare marinades, sauces, washed vegetables and salads in advance, but keep salads chilled until the buffet opens. Use separate serving utensils for meat and vegetarian food to avoid mixing them.
  • Allow at least 90 minutes before guests arrive for the party tent, tables, buffet, decorations, lighting and barbecue setup. Test the music and lighting before cooking, and keep the barbecue on a stable surface away from the tent fabric.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should I plan a farewell barbecue?
Confirm the date, location and main equipment 2–3 weeks ahead. Send invitations early enough to close registrations at least 7 days before the event, then shop using the final guest count.
When should I buy food for a farewell barbecue?
Buy non-perishable items 3–5 days before the barbecue. Buy fresh groceries within 24–48 hours of serving, and chill drinks and store meat or meat alternatives as soon as they arrive.
How much time do I need to set up a farewell barbecue?
Allow at least 90 minutes before guests arrive for the tent, tables, buffet, tableware, decorations, lighting and barbecue. Add extra time if the equipment is being collected or assembled for the first time.
When should I ask guests about dietary requirements?
Ask for dietary requirements when invitations are sent and set a response deadline 7 days before the barbecue. Confirm the final list before reserving vegetarian portions and preparing shared salads or sauces.

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